1. Communicate with me - I think that communication is probably the most important thing in a relationship. If 2 people are going to be "one", then there MUST be communication between them if they have any chance of staying together. I watched my parents fail to do this pretty much their entire marriage, they had TERRIBLE communication skills. And if I was able to observe that from a younger age, then I know how important it must be. If one of them was feeling a certain way about the other one, it was never discussed. They both would let it build up until it turned into an argument. Nothing was every really settled or discussed rationally. So...yea...communication of any kind is extremely important. This would also all include things like texting me first sometimes. Let me know that you care and that you are thinking about me. Because if I start to think that you don't give a crap anymore, my wall will go back up, and I wont give a crap either. And then we have a problem.
2. Have a sense of humor - I NEED someone to laugh with me...about anything. Someone with a stick up their ass who can't see the humor in just about everything, is someone I do not want to be with. I want someone who thinks TWSS jokes are funny, because i think they are hilarious. I want someone who is sarcastic, but OBVIOUSLY sarcastic. It is annoying when you can't tell when sarcastic people are being funny. You can't always tell if they are making a joke, or just being an asshole.
3. Have a passion for something - If I meet a guy who has something that he does that he is passionate about, that would definitely inspire me. I am constantly look for inspiration, and I think that being around someone who is passionate and is someone I love, that would be so inspirational. I'm sure love is very inspirational.
4. Smell nice - This may be a shallow one, but omg, when a man smells good.....I will have their children right there on the spot. Phew. Ha!
5. Love God, more than anything else - This is the most important one. Because I know that if a man loves God more than anything else, he will more than likely know how to treat me and what I want before I do. This will also be clear if he has a good relationship with this mother. I remember when I was at my peak of "like" with Spencer, one of the main things I liked about him was his passion and undeniable love for Christ. Every time I read my Bible or listened to Christian music I thought of Him, which drew me closer to God. I know it may not be good to draw closer to God through someone else, but I always thought that maybe that was the point.I was drawing closer to God by possibly getting closer to my future husband (which is what i thought at the time anyway. I saw a lot of potential there...). Someone who has a love and a respect for Christ and what He did for us should always win any girl's heart.
Bonus - I was looking up a photo to put at the bottom and I saw one "trick to win a heart" thing and I had to add it...because DUH!
Remember little things about me - Remember my favorite flavor of ice cream, my favorite color, my birthday, my mom's name, my cat's name, my love for trees and elephants. Remember that I don't like bananas, that I wear my heart on my sleeve, that I have at least of or two total bitch days when I'm pmsing and nothing I say is personal. If someone can remember the little things about me, things that I will take the time to remember about him.....we will be together forever. :)
Bonus #2 - This >>>>>>>>
I kept finding these photos! Ha!
- Cobb
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